Privacy-First by Design

Your Privacy is Sacred

We protect your reflections with layered security and strict access controls. Your raw journal entries are never shared with your partner.

Last updated: August 2025

Our Privacy Commitment

No raw entries are shared

Only AI-generated insights are shared—never your private words.

What you write: "I feel unheard when..."

What your partner sees: "Try active listening exercises this week"

We don't sell your data

We do NOT sell your data to third parties. Your private information is not a product—it's sacred and stays with you.

No identifying information ever sold

Privacy is our priority

You stay in control

Export your data anytime or delete your account completely. Your relationship, your rules.

Export your data

Delete entries or your account

Manage consent for AI improvement use

How Privacy Protection Works

Encryption & access controls

We use encryption in transit and database-level protections (e.g., RLS) to keep your data isolated. We're building toward additional client-side options.

Peace of mind details:

  • • You can delete whenever
  • • All personal identifiers removed before processing.
  • • Future Zero-knowledge architecture in development

AI Processing Boundary

AI analyzes your entries to detect patterns and returns guidance. We don't expose the original text to your partner.

Example Translation:

Private"I'm starting to feel like we can't talk anymore..."
SharedAI suggests: "Take a moment to check in and have a meaningful convo."

Transparent Data Usage

We may use anonymized, aggregate patterns to improve system quality. You can opt out of AI improvement use in settings (when available).

What we analyze for improvements:

  • • General communication patterns (anonymized)
  • • Feature usage statistics
  • • Success metrics for relationship insights

Your Data Rights

What You Can Do

  • Export all your data
  • Delete specific journal entries
  • Permanently delete your account
  • Opt out of AI training data
  • Review what data we have about you

Your rights

Depending on your location, you may have rights to access, correct, export, or delete your data. We honor valid requests and are expanding in-product controls.

  • Right to access your data
  • Right to correct inaccuracies
  • Right to deletion (right to be forgotten)
  • Right to data portability

Important notices

Not a replacement for professional therapy: RelationshipOS provides AI-powered relationship support and insights, not clinical therapy or medical advice. If you're experiencing serious relationship issues, depression, or mental health concerns, please consult with a licensed professional.

Emergency situations: If you or your partner are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services or a crisis hotline immediately. RelationshipOS is not designed for crisis intervention.

Beta limitations: During beta, some privacy features are still rolling out. Setting a high bar for privacy while delivering useful insights is our top priority.

Questions About Privacy? Want to Help?

We're here to help you understand exactly how we protect your relationship data.

Privacy questions? Email us at social@relationshipos.app